{"status":true,"post":{"id":39485,"user_id":6,"status":1,"type":1,"orde":null,"notification_type":3,"static_post":0,"published_at":"2023-05-02 07:52:00","created_at":"2023-05-02T04:52:00.000000Z","updated_at":"2023-05-02T04:52:00.000000Z","edited_at":"2024-12-17 22:35:21","source_id":null,"post_id":39485,"is_featured":0,"title":"Mezarl\u0131kta bile\u2026 \u2018Bize ne oldu?\u2019","slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"category_id":73,"description":"DR. \u0130LHAM\u0130 FINDIK\u00c7I","content":"

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Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u00f6kl\u00fc bir aile \u015firketinde \u00fc\u00e7 karde\u015fin ge\u00e7imsizli\u011fini dinlerken duyduklar\u0131ma inanamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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Karde\u015flerin birbirlerine nefreti \u00f6ylesine b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f ki, anne babalar\u0131n\u0131n mezarl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bile yan yana gelmemek i\u00e7in \u00f6zel bir \u00e7aba g\u00f6steriyorlarm\u0131\u015f. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck karde\u015fe bu durumun nedenini sordu\u011fumda g\u00f6zleri doldu ve anlatt\u0131. Aile \u015firketi hissedar\u0131 karde\u015fin, \u201cBu kadar da olur mu?\u201d dedirten aktar\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 kendi dilinden anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fal\u0131m. Aile ili\u015fkilerimizi bir de bu \u00f6rnek \u00fczerinden irdeleyelim.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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Ve m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca dersler \u00e7\u0131karal\u0131m.<\/span><\/p>

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\u201c\u2026Acaba bize ne oldu ki, bu maddi zenginlik ve imk\u00e2nlar\u0131n i\u00e7inde \u00fc\u00e7 karde\u015f birbirimize d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fck, kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmaya ve yan yana gelmeye tahamm\u00fcl\u00fcm\u00fcz yok. \u00d6yle ki, arife g\u00fcn\u00fc annemle babam\u0131n mezarlar\u0131n\u0131 ziyaret ederken b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u011fabeyim oradaysa gitmiyoruz. Anlayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00f6l\u00fcm bile bizi yan yana getirmiyor.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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\u0130\u015fimiz babam\u0131n, memuriyetten sonraki emeklilik birikimiyle hayal etti\u011fi tekstil at\u00f6lyesini kurmas\u0131yla ba\u015flad\u0131. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir esnaft\u0131. Gece g\u00fcnd\u00fcz \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131, zorluklar \u00e7ekti. \u00dc\u00e7 makina ve \u00fc\u00e7 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanla ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015finde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan say\u0131s\u0131 70\u2019e kadar \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.<\/span><\/p>

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Karde\u015flerin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fc olarak i\u015fin i\u00e7inde yeti\u015ftim. \u0130ki a\u011fabeyim de farkl\u0131 i\u015flerde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorlard\u0131. \u0130\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce babam b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u011fabeyimi i\u015fe davet etti ama gelmedi. Di\u011fer a\u011fabeyim geldi. Uzun zaman babam ve iki karde\u015f i\u015fi y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fck. \u00c7ok \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr h\u0131zla b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck. Babam i\u015f konusunda \u00e7ok titizdi, m\u00fc\u015fteriyi \u00e7ok \u00f6nemser, kaliteye \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterirdi. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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BABAMIN MASASINA OTURDU<\/span><\/strong><\/p>

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\u0130\u015fin i\u00e7indeki a\u011fabeyimle birlikte yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131na da kendi markam\u0131zla \u00fcr\u00fcn g\u00f6ndermeye ba\u015flay\u0131nca i\u015flerin \u015fekli de\u011fi\u015fti. Yeni fabrika binam\u0131za ge\u00e7tik, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131m\u0131z \u00e7o\u011fald\u0131. Babam baz\u0131 hastal\u0131klar ge\u00e7irdi ve i\u015fe gelmekte zorland\u0131.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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Defalarca davet etti\u011fimiz halde i\u015fe gelmeyen b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u011fabeyim, bir sabah fabrikaya geldi ve babam\u0131n masas\u0131na oturdu. Babam\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00fczd\u00fc. \u0130\u015ften anlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 halde tepe y\u00f6netici olmak istedi. Biraz s\u00f6ylendik ama aile k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc gere\u011fi kabul ettik. Fakat onun y\u00f6netiminde i\u015fler h\u0131zla s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya girdi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlara ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131yor, m\u00fc\u015fterilere yeni kurallar getiriyor, para y\u00f6netiminde al\u0131\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u015fler yap\u0131yordu. \u00c7ok g\u00fczel giyiniyor, sivil toplum kurulu\u015flar\u0131nda yer al\u0131yor, bolca yard\u0131mlar yap\u0131yor, para ile itibar edinmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordu.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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\u0130\u015fler iyice k\u00f6t\u00fcye gitmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bir g\u00fcn babam\u0131n, kendine ait olan ama kullanamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 odas\u0131n\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131nda g\u00f6zleri dolarak; \u201cKendi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir \u015feye hizmet etmeyen bu \u00e7ocuk hepimizi bat\u0131racak\u201d dedi\u011fini hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. A\u011fabeyim, babam\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 odan\u0131n giri\u015finden kald\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, kendi ad\u0131n\u0131 yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Babam\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 da toplant\u0131 odas\u0131n\u0131n giri\u015fine koydurmu\u015ftu.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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Babam hastayd\u0131, b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u011fabeyim de h\u00e2kim olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fle ilgili kararlar veriyordu. Biz arka planda bozulan i\u015fleri yoluna koymaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a o \u00fczerimize geldi. Son olarak biz iki karde\u015fin maa\u015f\u0131n\u0131 e\u015fitledi, kendisine de iki kat maa\u015f ba\u011flad\u0131. Defalarca topland\u0131k ama \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc a\u011fabeyim hep hakl\u0131, her \u015feyi en iyi biliyor, t\u00fcm ba\u015far\u0131lar onun, durmadan konu\u015fuyor, herkesi o tan\u0131yor ama uygulamada bitirdi\u011fi bir i\u015f de yok. Tart\u0131\u015fmaktan i\u015f yapamaz hale geldik. Zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda k\u00fcs\u00fcp gidiyordu, imza yetkisi onda oldu\u011fundan i\u015fler kilitleniyordu.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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AYRILMAYA KARAR VERD\u0130K<\/span><\/strong><\/p>

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Babam bu tart\u0131\u015fmalardan da \u00e7ok etkilendi, hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilerledi. Defalarca ke\u015fke bu i\u015fe hi\u00e7 kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmasayd\u0131k dedi\u011fine \u015fahit olduk. \u00d6nce babam, yedi ay sonra da annem rahmetli oldu. Her ikisinin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc ile b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u011fabeyim d\u00fczelir diye beklerken tersine \u2018Ben ailenin b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcy\u00fcm, ne dersem o olur\u2019 havas\u0131na girdi. Bu arada uzun zamand\u0131r ge\u00e7imsizlik ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 e\u015finden ayr\u0131ld\u0131. Ba\u015fka biriyle evlendi.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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Oysa ki ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 yengem, g\u00fczel bir insand\u0131. Sadece ona de\u011fil, aileye de b\u00fcy\u00fck eme\u011fi vard\u0131.<\/span><\/p>

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\u0130ki karde\u015f a\u011fabeyimle ortakl\u0131ktan ayr\u0131lmaya karar verdik. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 de \u00e7ok ac\u0131 oldu. Hi\u00e7bir \u00f6nerimizi kabul etmedi. Her \u015feyi al\u0131p bizi i\u015ften ay\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bankalardan para bulamay\u0131nca kendisi ayr\u0131lmaya karar verdi. \u00d6nerdi\u011fimiz arabulucu i\u015f adam\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmedi. Kendisinin belirledi\u011fi arkada\u015f\u0131 arabulucu esnaf\u0131n \u015fartlar\u0131n\u0131 da kabul etmedi. Hatta bekledi\u011fi sonucu vermedi\u011fi i\u00e7in y\u0131llard\u0131r tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 yak\u0131n arkada\u015f\u0131yla aras\u0131 bozuldu. Sonu\u00e7ta hak etti\u011finin fazlas\u0131n\u0131 vererek onu ortakl\u0131ktan ay\u0131rd\u0131k. Sadece biz de\u011fil \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar, m\u00fc\u015fteriler ve ailelerimiz bu durumdan memnun oldu.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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\u015eimdi iki karde\u015f i\u015fimizi yeniden d\u00fczelttik, eski enerjimizi ve h\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yakalad\u0131k. A\u011fabeyim, \u00fcretim ve pazarlamaya, ben de mali i\u015fler ve genel y\u00f6netime bak\u0131yorum. Ayr\u0131lan b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u011fabeyim ise ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 paralarla \u00f6nce yeni bir at\u00f6lye kurdu, y\u00fcr\u00fctemeyince kapatt\u0131. Enerji i\u015fine girdi ama orta\u011f\u0131 ile kavga ederek ayr\u0131ld\u0131. Son olarak bir arkada\u015f\u0131yla kuyumcu d\u00fckk\u00e2n\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131.<\/span><\/p>

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Ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan bu yana kendisiyle hi\u00e7 konu\u015fmuyor, bir araya gelmiyoruz. Bayramlarda, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerde ve mezarl\u0131kta bile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmamaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6steriyoruz\u2026\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>","slug":"mezarlikta-bile-bize-ne-oldu-","tags":null,"meta_title":null,"meta_description":null,"meta_keywords":null,"news_cover_min":"\/front\/uploads\/blog\/thumbnail\/1682974800RXgLpgRWTT3j0KG.webp","news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"view_count":1477,"cropped_1200x675":null,"user":{"id":6,"name":"\u0130LHAM\u0130","surname":"FINDIK\u00c7I","email":"kerem49@gonultas.org","slug":"dr-ilhami-findikci","avatar":"\/front\/uploads\/avatar\/17336916007TlCwM70HUjW9XY.webp","status":1,"role":1,"email_verified_at":null,"orde":null,"created_at":"2022-09-15T09:39:41.000000Z","updated_at":"2024-12-18T10:21:29.000000Z","seo_title":null,"seo_description":null},"translations":[{"id":39611,"is_featured":0,"is_amp":0,"is_ads":0,"ads_link":null,"post_id":39485,"locale":"tr","category_id":73,"title":"Mezarl\u0131kta bile\u2026 \u2018Bize ne oldu?\u2019","home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"subtitleuse":0,"description":"DR. \u0130LHAM\u0130 FINDIK\u00c7I","content":"

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ifindikci@degerdanismanlik.com.tr<\/span><\/strong><\/p>

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Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u00f6kl\u00fc bir aile \u015firketinde \u00fc\u00e7 karde\u015fin ge\u00e7imsizli\u011fini dinlerken duyduklar\u0131ma inanamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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Karde\u015flerin birbirlerine nefreti \u00f6ylesine b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f ki, anne babalar\u0131n\u0131n mezarl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bile yan yana gelmemek i\u00e7in \u00f6zel bir \u00e7aba g\u00f6steriyorlarm\u0131\u015f. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck karde\u015fe bu durumun nedenini sordu\u011fumda g\u00f6zleri doldu ve anlatt\u0131. Aile \u015firketi hissedar\u0131 karde\u015fin, \u201cBu kadar da olur mu?\u201d dedirten aktar\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 kendi dilinden anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fal\u0131m. Aile ili\u015fkilerimizi bir de bu \u00f6rnek \u00fczerinden irdeleyelim.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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Ve m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca dersler \u00e7\u0131karal\u0131m.<\/span><\/p>

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\u201c\u2026Acaba bize ne oldu ki, bu maddi zenginlik ve imk\u00e2nlar\u0131n i\u00e7inde \u00fc\u00e7 karde\u015f birbirimize d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fck, kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmaya ve yan yana gelmeye tahamm\u00fcl\u00fcm\u00fcz yok. \u00d6yle ki, arife g\u00fcn\u00fc annemle babam\u0131n mezarlar\u0131n\u0131 ziyaret ederken b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u011fabeyim oradaysa gitmiyoruz. Anlayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00f6l\u00fcm bile bizi yan yana getirmiyor.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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\u0130\u015fimiz babam\u0131n, memuriyetten sonraki emeklilik birikimiyle hayal etti\u011fi tekstil at\u00f6lyesini kurmas\u0131yla ba\u015flad\u0131. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir esnaft\u0131. Gece g\u00fcnd\u00fcz \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131, zorluklar \u00e7ekti. \u00dc\u00e7 makina ve \u00fc\u00e7 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanla ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015finde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan say\u0131s\u0131 70\u2019e kadar \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.<\/span><\/p>

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Karde\u015flerin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fc olarak i\u015fin i\u00e7inde yeti\u015ftim. \u0130ki a\u011fabeyim de farkl\u0131 i\u015flerde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorlard\u0131. \u0130\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce babam b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u011fabeyimi i\u015fe davet etti ama gelmedi. Di\u011fer a\u011fabeyim geldi. Uzun zaman babam ve iki karde\u015f i\u015fi y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fck. \u00c7ok \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr h\u0131zla b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck. Babam i\u015f konusunda \u00e7ok titizdi, m\u00fc\u015fteriyi \u00e7ok \u00f6nemser, kaliteye \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterirdi. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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BABAMIN MASASINA OTURDU<\/span><\/strong><\/p>

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\u0130\u015fin i\u00e7indeki a\u011fabeyimle birlikte yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131na da kendi markam\u0131zla \u00fcr\u00fcn g\u00f6ndermeye ba\u015flay\u0131nca i\u015flerin \u015fekli de\u011fi\u015fti. Yeni fabrika binam\u0131za ge\u00e7tik, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131m\u0131z \u00e7o\u011fald\u0131. Babam baz\u0131 hastal\u0131klar ge\u00e7irdi ve i\u015fe gelmekte zorland\u0131.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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Defalarca davet etti\u011fimiz halde i\u015fe gelmeyen b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u011fabeyim, bir sabah fabrikaya geldi ve babam\u0131n masas\u0131na oturdu. Babam\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00fczd\u00fc. \u0130\u015ften anlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 halde tepe y\u00f6netici olmak istedi. Biraz s\u00f6ylendik ama aile k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc gere\u011fi kabul ettik. Fakat onun y\u00f6netiminde i\u015fler h\u0131zla s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya girdi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlara ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131yor, m\u00fc\u015fterilere yeni kurallar getiriyor, para y\u00f6netiminde al\u0131\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u015fler yap\u0131yordu. \u00c7ok g\u00fczel giyiniyor, sivil toplum kurulu\u015flar\u0131nda yer al\u0131yor, bolca yard\u0131mlar yap\u0131yor, para ile itibar edinmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordu.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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\u0130\u015fler iyice k\u00f6t\u00fcye gitmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bir g\u00fcn babam\u0131n, kendine ait olan ama kullanamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 odas\u0131n\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131nda g\u00f6zleri dolarak; \u201cKendi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir \u015feye hizmet etmeyen bu \u00e7ocuk hepimizi bat\u0131racak\u201d dedi\u011fini hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. A\u011fabeyim, babam\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 odan\u0131n giri\u015finden kald\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, kendi ad\u0131n\u0131 yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Babam\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 da toplant\u0131 odas\u0131n\u0131n giri\u015fine koydurmu\u015ftu.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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Babam hastayd\u0131, b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u011fabeyim de h\u00e2kim olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fle ilgili kararlar veriyordu. Biz arka planda bozulan i\u015fleri yoluna koymaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a o \u00fczerimize geldi. Son olarak biz iki karde\u015fin maa\u015f\u0131n\u0131 e\u015fitledi, kendisine de iki kat maa\u015f ba\u011flad\u0131. Defalarca topland\u0131k ama \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc a\u011fabeyim hep hakl\u0131, her \u015feyi en iyi biliyor, t\u00fcm ba\u015far\u0131lar onun, durmadan konu\u015fuyor, herkesi o tan\u0131yor ama uygulamada bitirdi\u011fi bir i\u015f de yok. Tart\u0131\u015fmaktan i\u015f yapamaz hale geldik. Zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda k\u00fcs\u00fcp gidiyordu, imza yetkisi onda oldu\u011fundan i\u015fler kilitleniyordu.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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AYRILMAYA KARAR VERD\u0130K<\/span><\/strong><\/p>

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Babam bu tart\u0131\u015fmalardan da \u00e7ok etkilendi, hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilerledi. Defalarca ke\u015fke bu i\u015fe hi\u00e7 kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmasayd\u0131k dedi\u011fine \u015fahit olduk. \u00d6nce babam, yedi ay sonra da annem rahmetli oldu. Her ikisinin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc ile b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u011fabeyim d\u00fczelir diye beklerken tersine \u2018Ben ailenin b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcy\u00fcm, ne dersem o olur\u2019 havas\u0131na girdi. Bu arada uzun zamand\u0131r ge\u00e7imsizlik ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 e\u015finden ayr\u0131ld\u0131. Ba\u015fka biriyle evlendi.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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Oysa ki ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 yengem, g\u00fczel bir insand\u0131. Sadece ona de\u011fil, aileye de b\u00fcy\u00fck eme\u011fi vard\u0131.<\/span><\/p>

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\u0130ki karde\u015f a\u011fabeyimle ortakl\u0131ktan ayr\u0131lmaya karar verdik. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 de \u00e7ok ac\u0131 oldu. Hi\u00e7bir \u00f6nerimizi kabul etmedi. Her \u015feyi al\u0131p bizi i\u015ften ay\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bankalardan para bulamay\u0131nca kendisi ayr\u0131lmaya karar verdi. \u00d6nerdi\u011fimiz arabulucu i\u015f adam\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmedi. Kendisinin belirledi\u011fi arkada\u015f\u0131 arabulucu esnaf\u0131n \u015fartlar\u0131n\u0131 da kabul etmedi. Hatta bekledi\u011fi sonucu vermedi\u011fi i\u00e7in y\u0131llard\u0131r tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 yak\u0131n arkada\u015f\u0131yla aras\u0131 bozuldu. Sonu\u00e7ta hak etti\u011finin fazlas\u0131n\u0131 vererek onu ortakl\u0131ktan ay\u0131rd\u0131k. Sadece biz de\u011fil \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar, m\u00fc\u015fteriler ve ailelerimiz bu durumdan memnun oldu.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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\u015eimdi iki karde\u015f i\u015fimizi yeniden d\u00fczelttik, eski enerjimizi ve h\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yakalad\u0131k. A\u011fabeyim, \u00fcretim ve pazarlamaya, ben de mali i\u015fler ve genel y\u00f6netime bak\u0131yorum. Ayr\u0131lan b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u011fabeyim ise ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 paralarla \u00f6nce yeni bir at\u00f6lye kurdu, y\u00fcr\u00fctemeyince kapatt\u0131. Enerji i\u015fine girdi ama orta\u011f\u0131 ile kavga ederek ayr\u0131ld\u0131. Son olarak bir arkada\u015f\u0131yla kuyumcu d\u00fckk\u00e2n\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131.<\/span><\/p>

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Ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan bu yana kendisiyle hi\u00e7 konu\u015fmuyor, bir araya gelmiyoruz. Bayramlarda, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerde ve mezarl\u0131kta bile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmamaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6steriyoruz\u2026\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>","slug":"mezarlikta-bile-bize-ne-oldu-","orjinalimage":"\/front\/uploads\/blog\/thumbnail\/1682974800RXgLpgRWTT3j0KG.webp","news_cover_min":"\/front\/uploads\/blog\/thumbnail\/1682974800RXgLpgRWTT3j0KG.webp","news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"cropped_638x552":null,"cropped_310x208":null,"cropped_416x247":null,"cropped_197x247":null,"cropped_416x600":null,"cropped_1200x675":null,"tags":null,"meta_title":null,"meta_description":null,"meta_keywords":null,"view_count":1477,"yt":0,"ytid":"","ytimage":null,"imgdate":"2000-01-01 00:00:00","cuff_cover":null,"cropped_358x214":null,"cropped_842x474":null}]}}