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ifindikci@degerdanismanlik.com.tr<\/span><\/strong><\/p>

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Bug\u00fcn aile \u015firketlerine dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k s\u00fcrecinde kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya oldu\u011fumuz i\u015fler ile ge\u00e7mi\u015fte yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z k\u0131yaslan\u0131nca ciddi de\u011fi\u015fiklikler var. Ger\u00e7ekten de ge\u00e7mi\u015fte aile \u015firketlerinde ya\u015fanan sorunlar i\u00e7inde daha teknik, daha maddi ba\u015fl\u0131klar \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yordu.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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Esasen eskiden de aile \u015firketlerinde insani sorunlar vard\u0131. Ancak bug\u00fcn pek \u00e7ok aile \u015firketi, i\u015f odakl\u0131 teknik sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zm\u00fc\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Yani kurumlar, genel olarak kurumsalla\u015fma, organizasyon \u015femas\u0131, g\u00f6rev tan\u0131mlar\u0131, hiyerar\u015fi ve benzeri alanlarda ciddi yol alm\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Ancak sorunlar\u0131n yo\u011funla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 alan d\u00f6n\u00fcp dola\u015f\u0131p insan odakl\u0131 bir h\u00e2l alm\u0131\u015f. Bu, \u015fu demek: Aile \u015firketlerindeki sorunlar, aile \u00fcyelerinin kendi aralar\u0131nda veya profesyonellerle aralar\u0131ndaki etkile\u015fim-ileti\u015fim s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f. Aile \u015firketlerindeki bireylerin insan ve ileti\u015fim odakl\u0131 sorunlar\u0131 di\u011fer t\u00fcm s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7mi\u015f, onlar\u0131 g\u00f6lgede b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor.<\/span><\/p>

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Konu giderek teknik yap\u0131lanmadan, teknik sorunlardan yani teknik a\u00e7\u0131dan kurumsalla\u015fmadan ziyade insani a\u00e7\u0131dan yap\u0131lanma, insan ili\u015fkilerini d\u00fczenleme, ge\u00e7imsizlikleri h\u00e2l yoluna koyma ve nihayet insani ili\u015fkilerin kurumsalla\u015fmas\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. \u015eiddetin giderek bir ileti\u015fim diline d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde aile \u015firketleri de bu d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmden nasibini al\u0131yor gibi.<\/span><\/p>

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H\u00dcZ\u00dcN \u0130LE KEDER ARASINDA A\u0130LE \u015e\u0130RKETLER\u0130<\/span><\/strong><\/p>

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Bug\u00fcn aile \u015firketlerinin d\u00fcne g\u00f6re daha fazla h\u00fcz\u00fcn ve keder aras\u0131nda git-geller ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kolayl\u0131kla s\u00f6yleyebiliriz. Esasen bu durum salt aile \u015firketleriyle ilgili olmay\u0131p, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fal bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 gibi ortay\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn bilgi \u00e7a\u011f\u0131 insan\u0131, yo\u011fun teknoloji yorgunu oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in insani de\u011ferlerden uzakla\u015f\u0131yor ve adeta bir insani krize tutuluyor. Bu ise hangi ortamda olursa olsun g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131n\u0131n etkile\u015fim ve ileti\u015fimini daralt\u0131yor, s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131r\u0131yor, yava\u015flat\u0131yor ve renksizle\u015ftiriyor. Adeta SOS veriyor g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131. \u201cBen kendimden giderek uzakla\u015ft\u0131m\u201d, \u201cBenim kendimle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131m bozuldu\u201d, \u201cBenim daha fazla insan olma, insan kalmaya ihtiyac\u0131m var\u201d \u015feklinde hayk\u0131r\u0131\u015flar\u0131 var g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131n\u0131n. \u015eeyh Sadi \u015eirazi diyor ki: \u201cBa\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n gam\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekmeyen insan de\u011fildir.\u201d \u0130\u015fte bug\u00fcn ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n derdi ile dertlenenler azald\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in derdimiz art\u0131yor, insani sorunlar ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. Oda\u011f\u0131nda insan\u0131n yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu sorunlar, do\u011fal olarak aileleri ve onlar\u0131n kurduklar\u0131 \u015firketleri etkiliyor.<\/span><\/p>

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Her \u015fey g\u00fczel gidiyor. Ama kurumun \u00f6rg\u00fctsel ikliminde olsun, ailenin ruh yap\u0131s\u0131nda olsun bir karars\u0131zl\u0131k, bir h\u00fcz\u00fcn\u2026 \u00c7o\u011fu zaman kayna\u011f\u0131 belli olmayan bir kayg\u0131 ve endi\u015fe var. Daha da \u00f6nemlisi insani ili\u015fkilerde \u00e7\u0131kmaz var. Ki\u015filer durmadan birbirleriyle u\u011fra\u015f\u0131yor, \u00e7ok konu\u015fuyor, yaral\u0131yor, yara al\u0131yor, \u00f6nderlik m\u00fccadelesine giriyor\u2026 \u015eu halde maddi a\u00e7\u0131dan i\u015flerin yolunda gitmesi yetmiyor. Aile \u015firketleri kal\u0131c\u0131 bir de\u011fer payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131, insan ili\u015fkilerindeki kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z oturmu\u015flu\u011fu, maddi \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131n g\u00f6lge etmedi\u011fi ileti\u015fim ortamlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zl\u00fcyor. Maddi zenginle\u015fme maalesef insani zenginli\u011fi yava\u015flat\u0131yor, renksizle\u015ftiriyor, k\u00f6reltiyor kimi zaman. Yani maddi de\u011ferler duygusal de\u011ferleri zay\u0131flatabiliyor. Karde\u015flerin, akraba, ortaklar\u0131n birbirlerini has\u0131m g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri, mal payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 veya para y\u00f6netiminde egemen olma sava\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7inde hissettikleri bir ortamda aile ve \u015firket kaybediyor.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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Bunun i\u00e7in acilen ailede ve \u015firkette maddi de\u011ferler kadar sosyal ve insani de\u011ferleri de hakim k\u0131lacak bir oturmu\u015flu\u011fa ge\u00e7ilmesi gerekli, hatta zorunludur. \u0130\u015fletmenin \u00f6nemli oldu\u011fu asla unutulmamal\u0131. Ciro, k\u00e2rl\u0131l\u0131k ve kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z rakamlar \u00f6nemli. Bu kazan\u00e7larla edindi\u011fimiz arabalar, yatlar, katlar \u00f6nemli. Liderli\u011fimiz \u00f6nemli. Ancak t\u00fcm bu maddi de\u011ferlerin sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 tatmin ve mutluluk uzun s\u00fcrmez. Yani i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fclerimiz s\u00fcrekli olarak \u201cDahas\u0131, dahas\u0131\u201d derdinde olur. Kal\u0131c\u0131 mutluluk almakla de\u011fil, vermekle sa\u011flan\u0131r. Kal\u0131c\u0131 tatminler, sosyal a\u00e7\u0131dan i\u015fe yaramakla \u201cben\u201dimizi a\u015f\u0131p ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n gam\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekmekle m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olur. Aile \u015firketi \u00fcyelerinin kal\u0131c\u0131 tatminleri; kendilerini, ailelerine ve kurumlar\u0131na adamalar\u0131 ile m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. Ancak adanm\u0131\u015f ki\u015filiklerin uzun vadede kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131lar elde ettiklerini biliyoruz.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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\u201cBen kendimi neden aileme, insanlara, insanl\u0131\u011fa adayay\u0131m ki?\u201d diyenlerin aile \u015firketinde ya\u015famalar\u0131, hele ki liderlik yapmalar\u0131\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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ifindikci@degerdanismanlik.com.tr<\/span><\/strong><\/p>

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Bug\u00fcn aile \u015firketlerine dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k s\u00fcrecinde kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya oldu\u011fumuz i\u015fler ile ge\u00e7mi\u015fte yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z k\u0131yaslan\u0131nca ciddi de\u011fi\u015fiklikler var. Ger\u00e7ekten de ge\u00e7mi\u015fte aile \u015firketlerinde ya\u015fanan sorunlar i\u00e7inde daha teknik, daha maddi ba\u015fl\u0131klar \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yordu.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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Esasen eskiden de aile \u015firketlerinde insani sorunlar vard\u0131. Ancak bug\u00fcn pek \u00e7ok aile \u015firketi, i\u015f odakl\u0131 teknik sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zm\u00fc\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Yani kurumlar, genel olarak kurumsalla\u015fma, organizasyon \u015femas\u0131, g\u00f6rev tan\u0131mlar\u0131, hiyerar\u015fi ve benzeri alanlarda ciddi yol alm\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Ancak sorunlar\u0131n yo\u011funla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 alan d\u00f6n\u00fcp dola\u015f\u0131p insan odakl\u0131 bir h\u00e2l alm\u0131\u015f. Bu, \u015fu demek: Aile \u015firketlerindeki sorunlar, aile \u00fcyelerinin kendi aralar\u0131nda veya profesyonellerle aralar\u0131ndaki etkile\u015fim-ileti\u015fim s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f. Aile \u015firketlerindeki bireylerin insan ve ileti\u015fim odakl\u0131 sorunlar\u0131 di\u011fer t\u00fcm s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7mi\u015f, onlar\u0131 g\u00f6lgede b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor.<\/span><\/p>

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Konu giderek teknik yap\u0131lanmadan, teknik sorunlardan yani teknik a\u00e7\u0131dan kurumsalla\u015fmadan ziyade insani a\u00e7\u0131dan yap\u0131lanma, insan ili\u015fkilerini d\u00fczenleme, ge\u00e7imsizlikleri h\u00e2l yoluna koyma ve nihayet insani ili\u015fkilerin kurumsalla\u015fmas\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. \u015eiddetin giderek bir ileti\u015fim diline d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde aile \u015firketleri de bu d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmden nasibini al\u0131yor gibi.<\/span><\/p>

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H\u00dcZ\u00dcN \u0130LE KEDER ARASINDA A\u0130LE \u015e\u0130RKETLER\u0130<\/span><\/strong><\/p>

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Bug\u00fcn aile \u015firketlerinin d\u00fcne g\u00f6re daha fazla h\u00fcz\u00fcn ve keder aras\u0131nda git-geller ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kolayl\u0131kla s\u00f6yleyebiliriz. Esasen bu durum salt aile \u015firketleriyle ilgili olmay\u0131p, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fal bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 gibi ortay\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn bilgi \u00e7a\u011f\u0131 insan\u0131, yo\u011fun teknoloji yorgunu oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in insani de\u011ferlerden uzakla\u015f\u0131yor ve adeta bir insani krize tutuluyor. Bu ise hangi ortamda olursa olsun g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131n\u0131n etkile\u015fim ve ileti\u015fimini daralt\u0131yor, s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131r\u0131yor, yava\u015flat\u0131yor ve renksizle\u015ftiriyor. Adeta SOS veriyor g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131. \u201cBen kendimden giderek uzakla\u015ft\u0131m\u201d, \u201cBenim kendimle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131m bozuldu\u201d, \u201cBenim daha fazla insan olma, insan kalmaya ihtiyac\u0131m var\u201d \u015feklinde hayk\u0131r\u0131\u015flar\u0131 var g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131n\u0131n. \u015eeyh Sadi \u015eirazi diyor ki: \u201cBa\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n gam\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekmeyen insan de\u011fildir.\u201d \u0130\u015fte bug\u00fcn ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n derdi ile dertlenenler azald\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in derdimiz art\u0131yor, insani sorunlar ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. Oda\u011f\u0131nda insan\u0131n yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu sorunlar, do\u011fal olarak aileleri ve onlar\u0131n kurduklar\u0131 \u015firketleri etkiliyor.<\/span><\/p>

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Her \u015fey g\u00fczel gidiyor. Ama kurumun \u00f6rg\u00fctsel ikliminde olsun, ailenin ruh yap\u0131s\u0131nda olsun bir karars\u0131zl\u0131k, bir h\u00fcz\u00fcn\u2026 \u00c7o\u011fu zaman kayna\u011f\u0131 belli olmayan bir kayg\u0131 ve endi\u015fe var. Daha da \u00f6nemlisi insani ili\u015fkilerde \u00e7\u0131kmaz var. Ki\u015filer durmadan birbirleriyle u\u011fra\u015f\u0131yor, \u00e7ok konu\u015fuyor, yaral\u0131yor, yara al\u0131yor, \u00f6nderlik m\u00fccadelesine giriyor\u2026 \u015eu halde maddi a\u00e7\u0131dan i\u015flerin yolunda gitmesi yetmiyor. Aile \u015firketleri kal\u0131c\u0131 bir de\u011fer payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131, insan ili\u015fkilerindeki kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z oturmu\u015flu\u011fu, maddi \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131n g\u00f6lge etmedi\u011fi ileti\u015fim ortamlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zl\u00fcyor. Maddi zenginle\u015fme maalesef insani zenginli\u011fi yava\u015flat\u0131yor, renksizle\u015ftiriyor, k\u00f6reltiyor kimi zaman. Yani maddi de\u011ferler duygusal de\u011ferleri zay\u0131flatabiliyor. Karde\u015flerin, akraba, ortaklar\u0131n birbirlerini has\u0131m g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri, mal payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 veya para y\u00f6netiminde egemen olma sava\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7inde hissettikleri bir ortamda aile ve \u015firket kaybediyor.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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Bunun i\u00e7in acilen ailede ve \u015firkette maddi de\u011ferler kadar sosyal ve insani de\u011ferleri de hakim k\u0131lacak bir oturmu\u015flu\u011fa ge\u00e7ilmesi gerekli, hatta zorunludur. \u0130\u015fletmenin \u00f6nemli oldu\u011fu asla unutulmamal\u0131. Ciro, k\u00e2rl\u0131l\u0131k ve kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z rakamlar \u00f6nemli. Bu kazan\u00e7larla edindi\u011fimiz arabalar, yatlar, katlar \u00f6nemli. Liderli\u011fimiz \u00f6nemli. Ancak t\u00fcm bu maddi de\u011ferlerin sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 tatmin ve mutluluk uzun s\u00fcrmez. Yani i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fclerimiz s\u00fcrekli olarak \u201cDahas\u0131, dahas\u0131\u201d derdinde olur. Kal\u0131c\u0131 mutluluk almakla de\u011fil, vermekle sa\u011flan\u0131r. Kal\u0131c\u0131 tatminler, sosyal a\u00e7\u0131dan i\u015fe yaramakla \u201cben\u201dimizi a\u015f\u0131p ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n gam\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekmekle m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olur. Aile \u015firketi \u00fcyelerinin kal\u0131c\u0131 tatminleri; kendilerini, ailelerine ve kurumlar\u0131na adamalar\u0131 ile m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. Ancak adanm\u0131\u015f ki\u015filiklerin uzun vadede kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131lar elde ettiklerini biliyoruz.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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\u201cBen kendimi neden aileme, insanlara, insanl\u0131\u011fa adayay\u0131m ki?\u201d diyenlerin aile \u015firketinde ya\u015famalar\u0131, hele ki liderlik yapmalar\u0131\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

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